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如果呢的冰再大粒少少，就會叫做 ice ball

係 Michigan 北部，四個湖圍住，又凍又大風，近年出現咗 ice ball 好幾次。

要出現 ice ball 必須要三樣野同時出現
1) 極凍嘅冷空氣 2) 水要唔係太凍 3) 大風
我地呢到有齊晒呀！！！

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尋日聽到一首歌，其中一句歌詞給了我一個當頭棒喝。

Old Dominion - 

No Such thing as a broken heart

佢同一組出名嘅金句好接近：
Sing like no one is listening.
Love like you’ve never been hurt.
Dance like nobody’s watching,
and live like it’s heaven on earth.

我自己第一次聽到呢組金句，係2005年睇 "我係金三順" 嗰陣認識嘅。

係網上有金句出處的研究，話呢組金句，應該係嚟自 1987 年有一首歌 "Come from the heart" by Kathy Mattea,  songwritter Susanna Clark and Richard Leigh composed.

很多情歌都寫緊一樣嘅慨念，就係當你去愛一個人嘅時候，你就要出盡全力去愛，就好似你從未受傷過一樣。

反而今次係 Old Dominion 呢首歌入面，比到我反應嘅係呢句：

I wonder if Jack and Diane ever made it
After the drums and the guitars all faded
Was the best they could do good enough
Or did the heartland just swallow 'em up

How did my mom and my dad ever do it
If there were troubles then we never knew it
I guess they had each other and that was enough

You know you can't keep the ground from shaking, no matter how hard you try,
You can't keep the sunsets from fading, you gotta treat you love like
You're jumping off a rope swing maybe 'cause the whole thing is really just a shot in the dark
You gotta love like there's no such thing as a broken heart
You gotta love like there's no such thing as a broken heart

What am I gonna tell my kids when they see
All of this bullshit that goes down on TV
When the whole world is down on its luck
I gotta make sure they keep that chin up

Cry when it hurts, laugh when it's funny
Chase after the dream, don't chase after the money
And know we got each other, that's what's up

'Cause you can't keep the ground from shaking, no matter how hard you try
You can't keep the sunsets from fading, you gotta treat you love like
You're jumping off a rope swing maybe cause the whole thing is really just a shot in the dark
You gotta love like there's no such thing as a broken heart
You gotta love like there's no such thing as a broken heart

You gotta love like there's no such thing as a broken heart

'Cause you can't keep the ground from shaking, no matter how hard you try
You can't keep the sunsets from fading, you gotta treat you love like
You're jumping off a rope swing maybe 'cause the whole thing is really just a shot in the dark
You gotta love like there's no such thing as a broken heart
You gotta love, love, love, love
You gotta love, love, love, love
You gotta love like there's no such thing as a broken heart

Songwriters: Brad Francis Tursi / Trevor Rosen / Matt Ramsey / Jesse Frasure

歌詞入面話 "我唔知道父母有的乜都煩惱，但係佢地互相有著對方，我諗咁樣已經足夠"
一路行一路係到諗，真係咁啱，我真係唔知我阿爸阿媽佢地一生嘅瓜葛，但係去到人生嘅呢一刻，點解佢地仲係唔明 "對方"就係你的所有。。。

我個侄仔已經去咗外國讀書，相信不久嘅將來我個姨甥女都會走，係我地咁多個都結婚離開屋企嘅同時，我姨甥女剛好出世接棒，所以唔係好覺呢個空巢期 (empty nest) 嚟緊，佢地就真係要重新過二人世界，會唔會出現六國大封相？